Remembrance Cowl English
Geschrieben von beyenburgerin - Dezember 16, 2010
This Cowl is very special to me. I spun its wool as I watched beside my mother’s deathbed. We were next to her and escorted her on the way to the other side as far as that is possible. The situation was not easy for our family, and so I took my spinning wheel with me. The magic spinning wheel seemed to soothe the whole room and everyone in it to open up their minds for the next step. The wool for this autumn-coloured cowl was already partly on the bobbin when my mother passed away peacefully on the 13th of November, 2010 at the age of 89, shortly after midnight. So I finished spinning the yarn and knit this cowl with it to wear at her funeral as a special piece of remembrance on that day.
My daughter modeled a bit, so here are new photos
Pattern: Remembrance Cowl English (revised pattern, uploaded 17th Dec,2011)
The cowl isn’t too close to the neck and doesn’t cause a “too tight” feeling. When only worn as a scarf, it completely covers the shoulders very nicely. When it gets cold, you can draw it upwards and cover your ears or your whole head with it.
As always, this pattern is free.
But if you wish to make a donation, please send it to: Rumaenienhilfe, account number 3401122, Bank code 33050000, BIC/SAWIFT Code WUPSDE330, IBAN DE04 3305 0000 0003 4011 22.
Pattern: Remembrance Cowl English (revised pattern, uploaded 17th Dec,2011)
If you prefer, you can send the money to me via PayPal and I will forward it to Rumaenienhilfe.
Rumaenienhilfe is run by the Catholic Church community in our village Wuppertal-Beyenburg here in Germany, and the money definitely goes completely to people who are in real need and need help. Donations from people who attended my mother’s funeral went there.
If you wish to make a donation, please add the code words: “Remenbrance Cowl”.
A Few More Words about My Mother
My mother finshed her PhD at the University of Vienna when she was 22 ½ years old. Her doctoral thesis was on the Banater Eisenwesen im 18. Jahrhundert (iron mining in the 18th century in Banat, which is a part of Rumania today), and because of this she always felt affiliated with that area.
Here are some more photos of the two Remembrance Cowls I have knit so far:
Here is a new Remembrance Cowl, knit from 4-ply sock wool. I added a hint how to use 4-ply sock wool is at the end of the pattern file.














Mar sagte
What a special remembrance for your mother…. Sorry for the loss of her in your life; I think losing parents is hard at any age, but I’m glad she was able to go peacefully. I look forward to thinking of you with her when I knit this cowl. I would love to see a picture of it on you!
Katie K sagte
Thank you so much for the pattern. I suggest that you ask for donations to you through Paypal, and then you can donate the money yourself. That would be a lot easier.
beyenburgerin sagte
Yep, Katie, that is what I meant. I worte that idea in the pattern itsself. If someone wants to donate money, ti would be mad to make just the banks rich. Then I would forward the money to the Rumaenienhilfe and of course show that I did it.
Brigitte
Sophia sagte
Hi, I have been looking for a cowl to knit. Can you please send me the pattern. I cannot down load it from ravelry. I am not sure what type of wool and needles I would need. Thank you for sharing this beautiful pattern.
beyenburgerin sagte
Hi Sophia,
and sorry for the late answeer, I was in hospital on emergency. Click on the link in the text above to download the pattern.
You can use any type of wool and enlarge the pattern if you use thinnner wool. The wool I used resembels sock wool 6-ply. wool with 240 to 260 metres per 100 grams will be fine as well.
Brigitte
Victoria sagte
What a beautiful cowl…with such a loving remembrance. Thank you for sharing something so important. I sent comforting thoughts to you as I spin at my wheel…..
damariscottariverwoolens - Kathleen Halm sagte
Hi, I just want to let you know how much I value your sharing this deeply personal and moving story with us. My mother died sixteen years ago and was unfortunately put into a coma on my birthday. The last thing she said to me, the day before, was to go buy myself a spinning wheel on my birthday, and she would give me the money when she got out of the hospital. She wanted me to have the wheel ON my birthday, not to wait. Everything I spin has her spirit in it. Your cowl is especially beautiful and I’m going to start knitting it tonight! Thank you so much. I don’t know you, but will think of you and your mother (and my mother) every time I wear it.
beyenburgerin sagte
Thank you for your kind words